7 Tips To Lead A Happy Married Life For Muslim Couples
A popular verse that we hear is "Marriage is half of religion". To be precise, let's refer to a hadith.
Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever Allah provides with a righteous wife, Allah has assisted him in half of his religion. Let him fear Allah regarding the second half.”
Source: al-Mu’jam al-Awsaṭ 992
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Suyuti
In todays fast changing world, where time is money, lets see the secret for a happy married life in our article.
7 TIPS TO LEAD A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE FOR MUSLIM COUPLE
UNDERSTAND THE QURAN TO GUIDE YOU
“And those who say, ‘Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.’” [25:74]
Marriage is the foundation, for married couples to stay on Allah’s path. Nikah helps Muslim men and women to create a meaningful life together, Your marriage makes you get closer to Allah.
Marriage is made up of two different people with different interest, in Islam it allows people become more physically and mentally sound to achieve a harmonious partnership commited for a lifetime .Muslim marriages are also seen as a way to acquire spiritual perfection.
ASK ALLAH FOR YOUR SUCCESFUL RELATIONSHIP
The most important factor for happy marriage life is managing marital problems by fearing Allah. Get to know that relationships have many ups and down, and remember that Allah placed love and mercy in your bonding so that spouses can live life harmoniously together.
THANK EACH OTHER
You are married to love each other and find happiness, When you love each other, you should be thankful for being with them. Married life is a blessing. Always be thankful to Allah and remember that your spouse is Allah’s gift.
BE TRUTHFUL WITH EACH OTHER
Marriage brings happiness and is a long journey, during this journey you may face money problems or you might be worried about infidelity, have open communication among your selves and be transparent in your doings. Lack of trust or lack of confidence with your spouse may lead to downfall of your relationship, so be truthful to minimize any marital issues.
BE THE BEST OF FRIENDS
The most important tip for a happy married life is to believe that your spouse is your best friend. Dont keep secrets from your spouse, communicate effectively and make your spouse believe that you are and will always be a "FRIEND IN NEED". Understanding your partner’s feelings without the need for one person to keep asking what he or she wants will build your bond and make your relationship strong.
BE PASSIONATE WITH EACH OTHER
A healthy married life is a process where both husband and wife gets physical and emotional satisfaction. It is important for you to know what he or she wants or needs so that you can fulfill them. This is important for the success of your married life. Whether small or big make an effort to fulfill your spouse’s’ all halal needs.
GIVE TIME TO EACH OTHER
As you give time to your job, your friends and relatives. Please remember to give time to your spouse's. Most of the marriages suffer because of the spouses’ lack of time for each other. Apart from your daily routine, reserve few hours of your time to bond with your spouse. This creates a feeling of oneness, which inturn brings happiness.
29th December, 2022
