What Four Qualities To Look For In Your Future Muslim Wife
When you have started looking for that suitable bride, you will be expecting that one girl who you think is the best for your family, best for you and best in your society.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman; (otherwise) you will be a loser.” (Al-Bukhari)
Probably you need to think about 4 qualities in your future wife and all your previous expectations will be met.
A LOYAL MUSLIM
Marrying a devout woman who fears Allah will surely help you to be a better muslim. Just imagine that woman is praying for your well being and growth, who prays with you, reads Quran with you and discusses religion with you, surely she would be an ideal muslim woman.
You will not need to tell her about hijab and abaya, she will out of fear of Allah. She will be proud to be from the Muslim Community. Her religious commitment will bring barkah in your house and honestly one who fears Allah will also respect your parents.
RIGHTEOUS NATURE
A woman with good character builds a great family with you, remember that woman has always been the backbone of Ummah. After marriage, when you have children you can expect your wife to pass on characteristic nature to your children, so always look for a wife who has righteous nature.
A woman with righteous nature will appreciate your personality, not just for your looks, for giving her the space to be righteous in nature. She will be kind with all the people she will interact within your family. She will treat your parents as her own. She will keep you above all her priorities and support you throughout your life.
VALUES RELATIONSHIP
Marriage is one of the goals in your life, making money would be other, having children is one of them. A woman who can support you to achieve your goals is the one who actually values your relationship. If you are busy amassing wealth, your wife should be spending more time with your children instead of complaining about you not giving time.
A woman who sets her goals as yours, adapts to the lifestyle that you are in. One who is ready to travel wherever you go, one who is ready for the future of you by setting aside her own ambitions, is an ideal muslim woman that you should look for.
ATTRACTIVE
Marriage is a means for you to find happiness. An attractive woman not just by mere looks but by her deeds also will sure give you that happiness. If you are just going behind looks you might loose on something else.
Look for a woman who can satisfy you physically and emotionally, one who sounds melodious. You must like her when you see her, if you liked her when you saw her that ,means she is attractive, now start looking for other characterstic in her.
31st December, 2022
